My husband and I have been thinking lately that we may want to try out

My husband and I have been thinking lately that we may want to try out swinging, its something that would be completely new to both of us but we feel that we have a strong enough marriage that it can take us doing that. The reason it came up is that we saw a documentary on swinging on the television and once we saw it, it actually intrigued us a lot. We saw more than a few couples that are a part of this swinging lifestyle that are both very happy and that have a very secure marriage. It made us think that swinging would be something that could revive our love life and make our relationship stronger, we have been married over 15 years and now matter how much we love each other it can become a bit boring at times.

I remember when we first met how exciting and wonderful it all was. He was 10 years older than me and so handsome that every time I looked at him I could not believe he was going out with me. When he asked me to marry him I was so happy that I though I must bedreaming, but it came true for one day we had a huge white wedding and he promised to love and to hold me forever. We had a grand honeymoon in the Big Island of Hawaii and since then we have had a great marriage full of happy moments. It's only been in the last 5 years that our lovemaking has slowed down and lately that we have been thinking that we must do something to liven it up, then we saw the documentary on TV and we both realized that this was something that we can do to make it stronger.

I'm not sure exactly when we will do it for the first time, but I am waiting and hoping its not some cheesy group of people. That's why we have to pick the exactly right group for us, Idon'twant to be part of a group that is just interested in sex, that really would not tickle my fancy. I want to find some couples that are in love just like us that need a bit of a charge to their love life but that are otherwise happy with each other. Whenever it is that we do it I do hope that thisexperiencecan bring my husband and I much closer together.